Have you ever done something once and wanted to do it again but because it didn’t turn out too well the first time you are nervous about doing it again?
Well as I’m not afraid to say I’ve been married once. During my marriage, we renewed our vows somewhere between our 2nd and 3rd year of marriage. Was it a mistake? I can’t really say because truthfully neither of us took it seriously and we were still doing wrong and of course we still ended up divorced.
Now I am married to the man of my dreams, the man that I believe God sent for me. I just had to go through with what I had to do to get to him. God wanted me completely prepared for this marriage in every way. (I still have my ways that aren’t too pretty but God isn’t through with me yet).
Next year 2016 on a beautiful Saturday we will celebrate our five year anniversary. When we got married neither one of our parents, brothers or sisters where there. We had my family, cousins, but none of his. Now with what I’ve been through should I go through this again? Should I renew my vows, epsecially after what happened to me in my first marriage?
I know this is a different man, a different marriage, and just a different situation period, but I can’t help but to think that the reason we learn lessons is so we can do things differently.
So would you renew you vows? I would love for us to share our love with our families, but is it doing the same thing again?
Peace and Love,